Wednesday, 29 December 2010

Britomart


dear G. Stella,
Yesterday I travelled to Auckland to see Glenda. The boat ride was fine, but a little boring as I didn't have access to a cellphone. The arrangement was to be collected from Britomart. I arrived there, and waited but Glenda didn't arrive. Apparently she forgot me as she was too busy mowing the lawn :( I am not good at waiting.
After this incident was resolved we went to the gardens at the Domain, but it was very hot and I ended up with heat stress. It wasn't till we got back to Glenda's and Billy was there, and she poured me a swimming pool, that I felt happy again.

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year. Hope to see you these holidays :)

love

Rosie XXXXXXXXXXXX

Monday, 27 December 2010

Killing Kidzone


Hi,
I can't even start to process this. No more kidzone! I started watching TV just one year ago and this is the only channel I watch. It has nice slow movements and bright colours, good music and best of all it has, Kane. Also there are lots of kids on the programmes so when I feel a little bit on my own, I have company. I have learned so much from watching. When I first started it was only for minutes at a time, now I can watch for at least half an hour and I love it. It is all just too unbelievable.
love

Rosie

P.s. this is my lovely dress from Simon, Inge and everyone for next Winter.

Sunday, 26 December 2010

Boxing Day


dear U. Jon,
It was so wonderful having you here for the week. I loved having someone to play with especially another musician. After you left I went to the beach but I was overcome with distress at seeing kayaks in the water. The distress just poured out of me, very noisily and I couldn't stop it for the whole 45 minutes I there. I am not sure that other people on the beach understood what was happening to me. Today I am going to get my kayak out from under the house and go for a paddle.


thankyou again so much for coming to stay and spending Christmas with me,

lots of loves

Rosie XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX

Friday, 24 December 2010

Merry Merry Christmas


Hi,

Wishing everyone a very merry Christmas with lots of angel blessings. I hope you got to spend the day with people who love you, like I did. I was very excited to see my pressies all piled up on the bed.
lots of love
Rosie XXXXXXXXXXXXXX

Wednesday, 22 December 2010

Motorcycle mania


dear Carolyn
I am glad to hear you are feeling better. I saw a music therapist on TV yesterday and I missed you. He had a room full of instruments and was playing guitar. I have my U. Johnny staying and he has his guitar with him. We sang Christmas carols yesterday. Mainly though I just watch TV, play with my teddies, and go to the beach. There are some pools on the beach where I can just play crocodiles. I'll try and get some photos.

lots of love

Rosie XXXXXX

p.s. the photo is from Westport

Monday, 20 December 2010

96 percent humidity




dear Jess,
My wet clothes were hung out on the rack two days ago and they are still soaking wet. It is because the air is so full of water it doesn't want anymore. I am sorry you are not able to have your Christmas parties because of snow and that will be very sad if you can't even get to see your mummy. All my presents are already here at my house so I am very lucky. They are all stacked in a corner waiting for Christmas day.
lots of love

Rosie XXX
p.s. this is my cousin Sabian and my aunty Sonja. Sabian is coming to visit me in January.

Thursday, 16 December 2010

Lion Princess


dear Eleanor,
Thankyou so much for putting me in touch with Santa. I just saw him at Capital E the other day and he hasn't changed a bit since then. I had forgot to tell him I liked new dresses, so it is great he knows this now :)
http://www.portablenorthpole.tv/watch/guest/3DOPb-I04QN-lVCZovJFxg
If you ever want to come to Waiheke I'd love to see you. Otherwise I will see you in February when I get home again.

lots of loves and hugs

Rosie po

Wednesday, 15 December 2010

Blessing of Kimi Ora




dear Carolyn
I am sorry you are sick in hospital. Maybe I will be allowed to come and visit you after school today if you are still there?
Yesterday morning was the blesssing of the new school out at NaeNae. I delegated to parent to go for me. At 6.00am the Kaumatua for NaeNae intermediate took everybody through all the classrooms and blessed each one. The same thing will happen when the satellite school, that I will go to at Evan's bay is completed next year. Here is a photo of the outside. It is still being finished.
get well soon,

lots of love

Rosiepo XXXXXXXX

Monday, 13 December 2010

Molly Dog


dear Gael
It was so lovely to see you again after all these years. It is a long time since I was four years old. Thankyou for dressing me in your top when I needed a change of clothes :) . I loved taking Molly-dog for a walk and having my photo taken with her. I hope we can come again in the New Years.

love

Rosie XXX

Sunday, 12 December 2010

Santa Claus


dear Sabian, Julian and Ben,

It is a pity you didn't stay another night and come to school with me because today I got to go to Capital E and walk through the woodland forest of twinkling christmas trees. When you come to the end of the path, you go into a wooden house and there is Santa sitting in the corner. Every body in my class got to sit with him. I told him all the things I want for Christmas!
lots of love
Rosie XXXXXXXXXX

Thursday, 9 December 2010

Westport Cemetary







dear U. Johnny,
This is my great grandmother and grandfathers graves and your grandma and grandad. It needs some bleach sprayed on it to get rid of the lichens. I visited the cemetary this weekend. I didn't get to visit great great grandma and great great grandad as they were in the older graveyard.
I wandered around all the graves saying 'how are you' just in case someone was listening. I saw Sister Mary Francis's grave who taught you all piano and use to rap knuckles with a ruler. I don't know anyone like that.
see you soon for Xmas.
lots of loves
RosieXXXXXXXXXXXXXX

Wednesday, 8 December 2010

Shop Assistant




dear Grandma and Grandad,
Thankyou for having me to stay. I specially liked; playing with Robbie dog, running at the beach, doing computering, going swimming at the pool, riding on the motorbike and being a shop assistant.
I hope I get to come back down again soon.
love and hugs

Rose
Hélène

Visiting the South Island


dear Sue,
This was a tthe airport on Saturday waiting to board the plane to Nelson. I was very lucky to score a wheelchair. The flight was just a short one and I had a window seat. I was able to show Teddy all the views out the window. She was very impressed, especially when the wheels came down.
On Saturday in Nelson I went to visit my Aunty Gay and Uncle Ray. It was so funny because Nelson is a city and yet they live just opposite Mel's parents house. I saw Mel's dog outside her home but I didn't drop in because I was busy keeping Gay company.
Even though I had a wonderful weekend, I am very happy to be back at school.
lots of love
Rosie XXXXX

Tuesday, 30 November 2010

Child Development Report

Hi,
Don't be concerned about this- it looks very black and white and doesn't describe all of me, but I thought I would share it in any case. It was written by the developmental paediatrician at the hospital whom I see every couple of years.
love
Rosie XXXXXXXXXXX


Child Development Team Report
20 September 2010
Problems:
1. Intellectual disability


2. Cortical dysplasia
3. Epilepsy
Medications
1. Topiramate
2. Lamotrigine
Report
I was delighted to see Rose again along with her mother, Philippa and Hannah, her speech-language therapist from Kimi Ora School. Rose has high needs ORRS funding but the application for Very High Needs was unsuccessful. The school has initiated a review of funding as Rose’s needs are definitely very high.


Regarding communication, Rose is trying to use a few key words but there is great inconsistency in the sounds that she makes for the same thing, indicating a significant motor planning or dyspraxia component to her expressive communication and articulation. She also has a lot of drooling which again reinforces her poor oro-motor control. Rose’s receptive language is also much delayed. She understands a few words and routine commands at the level of a 12-15 months old. Strategies being used currently for communication include PECS and a Super Talker communication aide.


Regarding her motor skills, she enjoys riding a modified trike. She tends to have jerky movements when she walks. She is able to jump on the spot and likes the trampoline. She is no longer using the AFOs as she has seen Mr Gregg recently. She does walk with a crouch gait with bent knees and this seems to be a strength issue. It is difficult to walk with Rose because she has no sense of safety and will walk across the road and likes to run when she gets the chance. She sometimes needs a leash to keep her safe. Regarding Rosie’s fine motor skills, she is able to make marks on paper but not write anything recognizable.


Socially, Rose makes eye contact. She waves ‘bye bye’ and she does imitate social gestures but there is often a significant time lag of several seconds before she can produce a response. Rose can get up to mischief and it is difficult to discipline her as she doesn’t seem to have an idea of consequences and she doesn’t seem to react if she is told off or senses disapproval.[1] However she is not aggressive.


Regarding self-care, she can try to pull her pants up or down but she is still dependant on dressing. She wears nappies. At school they take her to the toilet every hour and she wears underwear there but there are accidents. She also has learnt that making the sign for toilet is a good way of getting out of work and she is well versed in work avoidance techniques. She can use a spoon but she is very messy. It has been difficult to assess her developmental skills in the past because her skills are very dependent on her motivation. Rose is becoming interested in TV, whereas previously she has not really registered it. She likes Kid Zone and has just started to enjoy the Wiggles.


Regarding the therapy she currently receives, Rose loves RDS and is learning to trot on the horse. She has had twice weekly music therapy sessions since the age of 3 and now it is provided at school. She really responds to music and most of her learning occurs through music and often the teacher at school uses music to help ‘switch her on’. She loves music and can play instruments for prolonged periods, whereas otherwise her attention span is quite short. She is starting to be able to make singing sounds and can use PECS cards in music therapy to indicate what she wants to do.


Her epilepsy is managed by Dr Thorsten Stanley. She has seen him recently. He has also discussed scopolamine patches to manage the drooling and I indicated that I was comfortable with trialing this. Rose also sees Dr Esko Wiltshire, Paediatric Endocrinologist regarding her precocious puberty and she is on injections to suppress puberty until an appropriate time.


Regarding her physical health, Rose sleeps okay and eats well. She doesn’t gag or cough when she eats. She has also seen Mr Keith Maslin, Ophthalmologist regarding her squint. Over the past year she has chipped both her front teeth.


Regarding services and supports, Rose gets Child Disability Allowance and there is a respite care provision. The family is planning to use Oasis. Rose gets hospital nappy supplies.


Examination
Rose looked well. She had a brief seizure during the assessment.


Impression and Plan
Rose is doing well. Her developmental skills are around a 12-18 month old level with strengths in her social imitation and in her musical appreciation and ability. She continues to require the input of several paediatricians regarding her epilepsy and precocious puberty, and I will continue to see her approximately on an annual basis regarding her developmental skills and monitoring appropriate services and supports. Philippa indicated she doesn’t find it useful to see other doctors in our service, such as registrars and I indicated that because of demand outstripping supply, the annual review with me might end up occurring at 18 months rather than a year, but we will do our best to provide a developmental reviews service to Rosie.


[1] Parents note: though this is changing

Monday, 29 November 2010

Belated Happy Thanksgiving


dear Roger,
I am sorry you are in hospital having a neck operation with lots of discs being taken out. It sounds very painful. You are very brave. We don't have thanksgiving here and so it is easy for me to forget the date, but I hope you still got to have a celebration with turkey and sweet potato and cranberry sauce. Did you get chocolate? I love chocolate. In my kitchen cupboard there is a click-clack container with chocolate in it. There are chocolate biscuits and coconut chocolate lamingtons and pices of chocolate. To get chocolate I put the container on the bench and then I go to the PECs signs and choose the chocolate bar and give it to an adult. Then they open the box and I get to choose. Yesterday I did this three times. Then the chocolate sign disappeared!!

So I what I did was still get the chocolate container out, but I went and chose the 'EAT' sign and gave that instead. You wouldn't believe it, but not only did that work, I got a lot of praise for problem solving.

I hope you are well soon,

lots of love and big hugs

Rosie XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX

Sunday, 28 November 2010


dear A. Kanate,
Thankyou for taking me to your family picnic on Saturday. I had a great time playing with your nieces and nephews and grandchildren.
Yesterday I went to swimming lesson and afterwards we went to Rebel Sport and bought me flippers and a snorkel for Xmas. I am going to practice snorkelling in the swimming pool and then maybe I can go in the sea on the island. I hope you and Anaya come up this summer. Anaya could go snorkelling also.

lots of love

Rosie XXXXXXXXXXXX

Friday, 26 November 2010

Activity Center in Alexandra


dear Grandma and Grandad,
This is the activity centre in Alexandra where grown-ups with intellectual disabilities go to in the day time there. It is run by Alison, whom I met yesterday because she came to visit my school. She raised all the money to build it and you can see it is very beautiful. I think this is where I would like to go when I am grown up. There are lots of things to do there. There are art classes and

swimming. There is gardening and there are visits to the beauty spa in town. You can hold dinner parties in the dining are and lounge and on Thursdays it is cafe day and locals come in to have cappucinos and relax.

see you next weekend,

love

Rose Hélène XXXXXX

Sunday, 21 November 2010

BoBoBoBor BorBooooooooooooor



dear Carolyn
This is my new song. I have been practising it all weekend. I hope you will be able to accompany me on guitar.
I did really well with swimming yesterday with flippers on. I did maybe 4 metres at a time. After my lesson, Jake too me over to the play area and we had fun in the shallow pool and the spa pool. Then he shared his pikelets with me. He is really nice and 8 years old, just like me.
I am sorry you were sick last week, I hope you are better and I see you tonight,

lots of love

Rosiepo XXXXXXXXXXXXXXX

Thursday, 18 November 2010

Shut the Door


dear Hannah,
I think you will be pleased. Yesterday after I came home, I realised the front door was open and so I went up to it and said 'shut door' and then of course I shut it :)

I am taking on more responsibilities around the home. This photo is of me filling the watering can last week. I was outside and saw it there, and thought it would be good for the garden to get some water and so I just took it into the house and filled the can up as far as I could :) It would be good if we get to do gardening again at school next year.
love
Rosie XXXXXX

Wednesday, 17 November 2010

Really Swimming


dear Eleanor,
Look! What happened is at the end of my swimming lesson with Alan on Sunday, his sons came along and got in the pool and the younger one, lent me his flippers. Then he stood about three metres from me and I swam and swam to him and I didn't even have arm bands on, just flippers and wetsuit :) Everyone was so excited, including me.
lots of loves
Rosiepo XXXXXX

Monday, 15 November 2010

Eid al adha


dear A. Tehzeeb,
Eid Mubarak to you and Fati and Zulfi. So this year you have a different pilgrimage to another land :) Are you enjoying the kangaroos.
Last night I went to dinner at Mel and Matts. This photo is from dinner with my demonstrating lotus position. However even with lots of demonstrating, nobody else seemed to be willing to even try it.
I hope you have an enjoyable Eid.
lots of love
Rosie


Monday, 8 November 2010

Winning the Cup


dear Julie,
Isn't the sunshine great? I am wearing a summer dress to school today. There are lots of flowers in the garden that are also happy to see the sun. My favourite are the ones that are all pretty colours. They are red, pink, orange, blue, purple and white.
This week I won the cup at school for walking properly to the supermarket and waiting at the traffic lights. I think I was just more responsible overall as I had Kelly to look after. I had to show her where the broom was and at night I had to get my sleeping bag and take it to her, when it was time for me to go to bed.
I hope you are very well,
love and hugs
Rosie XXXXXXXXXXXX


Sunday, 7 November 2010

Hanging out with Kelly




dear Godmother Kelly,
Thankyou very much for staying over this last week. I specially liked everything including the chocolate cake, the mallowpuffs, the uh-oh jokes and lots of scooting. It is good to know where my chin is :)
I also liked going to the picnic and meeting Tom and Jen and visiting Janine and all the bubbas.
I wish I could have gone on the big bus with you yesterday :(
lots of love
Rose Hélène XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
p.s. come back again soon

Wednesday, 27 October 2010

Those were the days



dear Eleanor,
Thankyou for these beautiful photos. I love the water so much and I loved going swimming with you. Now I go with school once a fornight and on Sundays this term with my swimming lessons. Also this term even though I am not on the list to go horse-riding, when ever there is a space, I get to go. I love that also.
For the next week, Kelly is coming to stay with me here in Wellington. I will have to show here the sights and look after her.
lots of love and hugs
RosiepoXXXXXX

Tuesday, 26 October 2010

Happy Hippies


dear Scott,

Thankyou for the hippy happy van. I pull back on it, let it go and it takes off across the land.
I did lots of yoga last night. I'll send you some photos soon and you will be able to show people what lotus position is meant to look like :)
love
Rosie


Monday, 25 October 2010

Swimming softly to your song











dear Alan,

Thankyou for the swimming lessons. Here are some more fun photos.

love

Rosie

Sunday, 24 October 2010

Devine Detribution


Dear Ria

I am going for swimming lessons with Mr Devine on Sunday mornings at Porirua Aquatic Centre. Last week Joshua came after me and this week it was Anna. I got a bit cold last week so this time I had my wetsuit on.
I am putting the gardening lessons from last term into good use. He asked me to water his head to see if it would grow some. I just humoured him because I don't think it can grow without some dirt and sunlight and there is none of these in the swiming pool.
love
Rosie XXXXX

Tuesday, 19 October 2010

Papoose Pakistani


dear A. Lubna,
When I was a little baby, the rules in my country were to wrap up babies very tightly, but I didn't like that. There were other rules too, like flattening the back of the head but putting the baby on rice bags and not letting them move their head from side to side. Luckily that didn't happen to me.
However, every night now for the last month, I have been kicking off my blankets and waking up crying with the cold. So last night I was wrapped up like a papoose and I slept all the night through.
Give my love to Kandy and Kahan and U. Ghaffar,
love
Rosie XXX

Sunday, 17 October 2010

Rope Bridge

dear Kelly,

Bring your gummies to Wellington. There is a lot of mud as well as the wind and rain. I am so looking forward to you coming down. One thing you have to know is that there is a picture of a chocolate bar on the PECs list and when I choose it and bring it to you, you need to go immediately to the click-clack container on the bottom shelf of the pantry (don't worry, I know where it is) and open it and give me chocolate.

lots of love

Rose Hélène

Friday, 15 October 2010

Wunning against the Wind


dear Julian,

Today Briony, mummy and I went to the new park close to here (more photos later). This photo is me just trying to stay upright. I don't know why they have built a park where the winds are stronger even than at my home.


I have been helping out a lot in the garden. I got to water the plant with fertiliser today that was made in the bukashi compost bins we have. It makes the roses grow really well. I love roses, of course.
I miss you being here. I hope you come back here again.
love
Rose XXXX

Thursday, 14 October 2010

Swimming with Wings


dear Jenny,

Every fortnight I get to go to the swimming pool with my class. I put on water wings and I can swim around in the deep end, where I can't touch the bottom, just like this duck. Cept of course the duck already has her wings.
This is a paradise duck that is swimming away from the camera to rejoin her mate. Paradise ducks mate for life.
love
Rose Hélène XXXXX

Wednesday, 13 October 2010

Christmas Calendars



dear Megan,
There is big production of Christmas Calendars going on at our house. You will be relieved to know that there are significantly fewer photos of me, than in the last year's family calendar.

In the weekend Kara and Georgia came to visit. I can now say definitively that these dogs watch TV; that one of them is not fussy and the other comes quickly to the screen whenever an animal e.g. a leopard is there but otherwise is not interested. I know you were somewhat skeptical but I have now seen it with my own eyes.
lots of love
Rose Hélène

Sunday, 10 October 2010

Growing Greater with Greg


dear Greg,

I thought you would enjoy these photos of you and me. It was lovely to see you at your mum's 70th birthday.

School starts again today. In the weekend all my summer clothes were taken from up in the cupboard and put in my drawers and wardrobe. But today the wind is blowing at 57 km/hour and the wind-chill is 3 degrees. It is not anything like Summer.
love
Rose Hélène XXX

Saturday, 9 October 2010

In Memory of Joseph


dear Kieran,

Eating crabs in London happened before you and I were born. It looks like fun. I met your daddy when he came to Wellington for a meeting. Afterwards he came to see me and we swung on the big wooden swing in our yard. He was really nice to me. Afterwards we took him to the airport and he left on a plane to go home to you.

He has really nice eyes and a cheeky smile. I am sorry the cancer took him away. You must have lots of memories that will always be with you of your very special daddy.

love and hugs

Rose Hélène XXX

Friday, 8 October 2010

Escaping The Walk


dear Eleanor,
Thankyou for coming round yesterday even though I didn't get a word in edgeways with that mother of mine rabbiting on.
After you left I went to the doctor and am back on antibiotics for a stapholoccocus infection that is making the horrible spots on my face. He also was able to apply online to Pharmac and get Scopoderm patches for me. I have put one on my back today and it will be there for three days. It is meant to stop my dribbling, which would be great.
lots of love
Rosie XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX

Sunday, 3 October 2010

Wonderful Holidays.


dear A. Sonja

It is so much fun having Julian here. Today I had to go for my injection I have every ten weeks and he came along to support me. I think he was very nervous about the big needle I had to have in my leg, and after seeing how brave I was, he will never complain about little needles ever again.

After seeing the nurse we went to Subway so Julian could use the voucher he had won on Friday and then we went to McDonalds for lunch. I love McDonalds.

We dropped Julian at Te Papa so he could see all around the museum and later we picked him up. The lady from Capital Support was here assessing my mother for her support needs and so Julian and I watched cartoons and played on the trampoline and scooted.

Then we went swimming at the pool. It was after 5.00pm and so there were only a few people there. At the pool there are lots of fountains.

Now back home, we are trampolining and scooting waiting for the lasagne to cook.

give hugs from me to Ben and Sabian and yourself,

lots of love

Rose XXX

Saturday, 2 October 2010

McDonalds



Dear Ria,
I bet you are missing me during the holidays
?

On Friday we travelled all the way from the Island to Wellington. We left on the 7.30 car ferry and arrived in Wellington at 6.30. Along the way we stopped at Matamata, Taupo, Taihape and then Thorndon.
In Matamata we pulled up at McDonalds and I was very excited. Daddy took me off to the toilet, but then, I couldn't believe it, he was taking me straight back to the car. I held on to the door in dismay and was yelling at him 'M..d..onnallsss' He understood. It was just that he hadn't told me the plan, which was that mummy was getting drive thru as there was such a large queue and we wanted to be on our way. I was very happy to get my happy meal and eat it in the back seat of the car with Julian.
In Taupo I got to go to the Super Loo. You pay 40 cents to go in. It is very flash and I got to go to the toilet for people with special needs. I didn't want to leave.
Taihape was just a gas stop and I didn't even get to get out of the car.
We came off the motorway at Thorndon as mummy was buying us all subway for dinner as she had driven all day (Daddy was jetlagged as he just got back from Pakistan the day before and couldn't drive). I was so excited. I told Julian 'ooollll' 'oollllll' and he understood that I meant school and that this was where my school was. So then we went and drove through the school car park. I was so happy to show him my school.
lots of love
Rosie XXXXXXXXXXXXX

Wednesday, 29 September 2010

Congratulations Kelly




dear Mel,

I walked 4.5 km today!!! but at least I didn't have to mow the lawn or shift all the old mattresses that tenants left here and take them to the dump with U. Jon and Julian. Also mum and Jon painted the study room while I got to just lie round watching Kane on Kidzone.

There is lots of sunshine here which is really nice. But on Friday we are coming back home. The great news is that Julian is going to come down with me and stay till middle of next week. He is real cool. You will like him.

See you on Sunday

lots of love

Rosieposie XXXX




p.s. this is Kelly graduating. She has finished her degree after 40 years :)